tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-306817502024-02-28T16:14:38.411+08:00erstwhile dreamsduhmynameiskailinhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08030343452209175085noreply@blogger.comBlogger748125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30681750.post-82247005292913800132013-10-20T01:39:00.001+08:002013-10-20T01:39:24.979+08:00Every stolen promiseI'm starting to go a little mad trying to understand statistics; too many models with too many properties sighpie. Anyway, I realised something random from having to make multiple calls last week.<br />
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Me: "Hi, good morning."<br />
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But the rare calls that made me smile went like this<br />
Me: "Hi, good morning."<br />
Person: "Good morning."<br />
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Is it that hard to reciprocate a simple greeting? It doesn't hurt to be polite after all.<br />
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On other things, I'm getting a little worried about the pace the musical is moving along at. I feel as though we haven't done much for props and sets. Dance is also behind schedule but hopefully we'll be able to finish learning everything.<br />
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Also pretty amazed at how I survived having two midterms on one day with really little sleep before that. And considering how recess week went too haha. The marks I lost were either due to not being able to think through the fog in my brain (i.e. careless) or because of working too slowly (which goes back to the foggy problem). So once again, sleep is important :/ And yet I'm still up typing this now hahaha. But yeps, bed time! Tuition lesson tomorrow morning; gosh 3 hours of math... I will not strangle anyone.<br />
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But... wow. It's only been three weeks. Somehow it feels like it's been a lot longer. The presence of your absence :/duhmynameiskailinhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08030343452209175085noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30681750.post-23444042610724339712013-10-11T23:48:00.001+08:002013-10-11T23:48:39.048+08:00Good SpaceI had an interesting talk with S & S on Monday night about understanding ourselves; learnt stuff I never knew and I ended that day feeling really positive. Then I spent a lot of time this week reading "the virgin suicides" and ended up losing my good vibes. In fact, the book has put me in a really... odd mood. I don't actually know how it affected me. I just read and the more I read the more I started feeling... grey?<br />
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Wasn't very productive this week either. Spent time doing a card (which turned out awesome) and decorations; spent more time just getting lost on the internet again. Need to start doing work, deadlines are pouring in. I also realised next semester is going to be a lot more taxing. Need to pull socks up.duhmynameiskailinhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08030343452209175085noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30681750.post-20732073134044459482013-09-27T01:30:00.001+08:002013-09-27T01:30:56.666+08:00Tongue tiedIt's strange. When I'm alone and brooding, my thoughts make sense to me. When I try and talk about my thoughts to someone, I can't put it into words.<div><br></div><div>I realized I think in feelings and not words, ideas and not sentences. I can have a whole conversation with myself in my head and all it'll consist of is a bunch of unnamable feelings and senses and it'll end with a conviction. Which is confusing, because sometimes I think back and I would have the impression that I used a certain word with myself but in actual fact, I just felt something and I now have to search for a word to represent it.</div><div><br></div><div>On a side note, I'm typing this with the blogger app on my phone and I really like the font.</div><div><br></div><div>On another note, from today onwards things are going to get tough. Which means it's time to toughen up or I'll never get going haha. I'm ready for this. The coming 9 months will fly like the 4 months that have already flown by.</div><div><br></div><div>---</div><div><br></div><div>A leap of faith is more than just a jump into the unknown. I gotta keep moving forward; if I look back I am lost. </div><div><br></div><div>---</div><div><br></div><div>The grass isn't greener on the other side. It's greener where you water it; seems like I've got a pretty big field to irrigate.</div>duhmynameiskailinhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08030343452209175085noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30681750.post-65743567463176383122013-09-23T21:13:00.003+08:002013-09-23T21:13:51.569+08:00Quiet<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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I haven't been here in awhile but I guess I just wanted to remind myself of what I've learnt in the past few weeks. Most of these lessons actually came from events that have happened/have been happening since some time ago but only occurred to me during this particularly introspective period.<br />
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1. Priorities<br />
My most recent philosophy assignment was somewhat tangentially related to the reason for suffering in this world. Actually, it was more related to arguments against evil and the existence of God than anything else, but my personal takeaway was a lot less abstract. I've been resenting the virus running amok on my hands and feet but if everything happens for a reason, then this was probably to show me that I need to start taking better care of this perfectly-able vessel that I walk around in. 4 hours of sleep a day isn't sufficient. Not cleaning my room for weeks isn't an option. If I really want to get better I have to make some changes to the way I live. There's no cure the doctor can prescribe me, I just have to help my body fight the virus out of me.<br />
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2. Mirrors<br />
Just because the past two projects I was involved in went well, doesn't mean that I did my job well. It took me awhile but I finally realised that I was pretty incompetent in quite a few areas and the only reason everything still went well was because the rest of the team picked up the slack. Where I failed, they saw and covered for me. I'm extremely grateful for having had the chance to work with a team so much more capable than me. I just wish I had realised this earlier so that I could have thanked them more than I already did. Looking back, there's so much I can learn from every one of them. Every strength I see in them reflects a weakness in me. I really have a lot to learn and improve on.<br />
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3. Character<br />
I think this is not the first time I'm having an minor identity crisis. I think I actually have them regularly haha. But the fact that they continue shows how I've yet to work this out. It's not that I don't know who I am; there's just nothing to who I am. I need to figure what's the downstroke in my T. I need to start filling up the blank page that I am.<br />
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4. Steer<br />
I've been drifting along wherever life takes me. Opportunities come and go; and that's all that happens. I need to start making decisions and taking action towards what I want to become. My first attempt at this was unsuccessful, and rejection kind of stings, but I guess that just means I need to try harder and more often. I'm a lot more hesitant now that I have a better idea of my inadequacy but I'll just have to find the right place to start learning. It's time to stop mass deleting all those school emails and start clicking on the "sign up" buttons.<br />
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I'm going to stop here because it's still recess week after all and I really should get started on work. I'm quite sure there were more things swimming around in my thoughts but I've lost them in the swirling mess that is my mind. I'll put them up here the next time they surface to bother me again.duhmynameiskailinhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08030343452209175085noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30681750.post-90421819017607446222013-07-10T01:15:00.000+08:002013-07-10T01:15:02.088+08:00full circleI'm not sure why I'm posting now, but today was a pretty great day! Met JJZY (hahaha this sounds like jeeezy) and it was awesome seeing Zinc and Jen again after so long. But Jen doesn't really count since I already met up for lunch with her and Ying in June haha. But yeps, it was a nice way to end the day.<br />
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Much better than the way it started haha. I stepped on a thumb tack in the morning as I was getting ready to go to ubi driving centre, got my shoes thoroughly drenched in the rain trying to get to CDC, and ended up failing my driving test with an epic 44 points hahahaha. Seriously, I'm not sure how that happened but I got marked down for the most depressing stuff. I just want to graduate already omg, my instructor and I actually thought I had a decent chance of passing when I had my last lesson. It's really hard to be patient and just keep improving when each lesson is so expensive and travelling to the driving school takes forever from NUS. I guess I'll just need to bear with it for 2 more months work on passing with even the strictest tester and not bank on a little luck.duhmynameiskailinhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08030343452209175085noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30681750.post-86806386669583369202013-06-04T23:56:00.000+08:002013-06-05T00:22:52.935+08:00ReflexToday was exhausting. At minds cafe I was flinching every time the table was slammed during the game; my nerves were just extra on edge after everything that had happened. Watching The Great Gatsby with Dawn and Qian Wen was a really enjoyable break from having to carry out normal human interactions. The movie was quite thought-provoking as well; it's supposedly not very well made but I liked it. Time to read the book too! And another driving lesson tomorrow, I really can't wait to get this done and over with.<div>
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duhmynameiskailinhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08030343452209175085noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30681750.post-82192000684967545542013-05-26T01:57:00.000+08:002013-05-26T01:57:03.403+08:00even if it hurts I can't slow downAnother tangle of emotions I need to force out but it's too knotted up with everything else. Not going to try tonight.<br />
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A line I can relate to from the book I'm reading: <i>If I look back, I am lost.</i>duhmynameiskailinhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08030343452209175085noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30681750.post-70652855292854900912013-05-22T01:49:00.000+08:002013-05-22T01:49:12.163+08:00Only miss the sun when it starts to snow<div style="text-align: center;">
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So much to do this holidays! Driving and FOC... It's tiring but being tired is good. It means I'm actually doing something haha! But still, being productive is so tiring. I hope I get to spend Friday curled up in bed with a book.<br />
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Note to self: what I've spent my new holiday freedom doing...<br />
13/05: Driving + Logs meeting<br />
14/05: Shelter + Driving<br />
15/05: Logs sourcing + Iron Man 3 (awesomeeee!)<br />
16/05: Sleep in day hahaha<br />
17/05: Driving + Logs admin<br />
18/05: Logs admin<br />
19/05: Driving + cleared cupboard<br />
20/05: Driving + Logs admin<br />
21/05: Baked cookies + Minds Cafe + FOC meeting<br />
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Hmms... Listed out like that it feels as if I haven't been doing much hahaha. I think all the empty time has been spent on online shopping and reading heehee. Anyway, time to get started on some logs admin. So boringggg~ I'll do a proper post to reflect on my first academic year another time hahas.<br />
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And I need to find time to start on a knitting project for this summer!duhmynameiskailinhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08030343452209175085noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30681750.post-71278971083442584332013-05-15T18:34:00.004+08:002013-05-15T18:34:47.811+08:00clean slate<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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duhmynameiskailinhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08030343452209175085noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30681750.post-59845358658731329582013-05-05T10:15:00.002+08:002013-05-05T10:15:25.621+08:00chokedThere's this uncomfortable knot of feelings stuck in my chest. A massive tangle of feelings about the end of the first academic year, my poor academic performance, my friendships, the future, the past... everything. And it keeps growing; after every paper more webs of disappointment and bitter-sweet relief weaves itself in and the knot gets bigger. Excitement's there too. The days are counting down. Fear. There's a lot of fear. I'm so very afraid of this summer and what it means. For everything. So many things. I don't want to study for my Monday paper. I want to sit in a corner, float away and let my subconscious debug itself.duhmynameiskailinhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08030343452209175085noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30681750.post-42823035160768404812013-04-15T04:14:00.000+08:002013-04-15T04:15:11.113+08:00strange thingsI'm starting this at 3.40am. I'm not sure why, except too many musings have hit me and I don't want to forget them. I'm in the lounge at angsana now; was catching up on webcasts with two other engineering students who are trying to complete their tutorial.<br />
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And it's a depressing reality. I feel miserable surrounded by people who are doing what they want while I slog away at a course that I don't enjoy. The sad thing is, I can't be who I want to be so I simply try to be the best that I can be. But it's hard; there are days where I feel like I should just not bother with my school work because I don't see any point in it. </div>
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But that's easier said than done. I wish I knew someone in a similar situation but again, so many people seem to be doing what they want. And I don't think I'm heading anywhere with this; I mostly wanted to get it off my mind. It's 4.14am now so I'll get back to my econs.</div>
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duhmynameiskailinhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08030343452209175085noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30681750.post-18328918840433502342013-03-01T18:37:00.000+08:002013-03-01T18:37:34.104+08:00chugging alongHow does time pass so fast! Recess week is ending and I've barely done any revision :/ WY scolded me for procrastinating so much *sigh* I needed to hear it and it made me sad but it still doesn't change the fact that I'm procrastinating. As usual... Bad habits are so hard to break! And I really really have to be more efficient when doing work, I take triple the amount of time any other person would take to complete something!<br />
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That's probably why I don't feel like I've gotten anything <i>done</i> this academic year. Like <i>done</i> and not done, cause it's not about finishing work but actually doing something? Even when training for ICG I was lazy :( It rained every training session in the last 2 weeks so we just cancelled training since we're not allowed to throw frisbees in the college hall. I just wished I'd thought of an alternative and played simulation frisbee or something hahas. Like using a netball (which for some odd reason is allowed) to practice vert stack so that we wouldn't have to teach everyone that on the day itself minutes before our games. Gosh :/ What a wasted opportunity. But that aside, I <i>might</i> just continue the ultimate interest group Cynthia started. It sort of self-destructed after she left the college hahas.<br />
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The topic of religion has been on my mind this past few days at my uncle's wake. There are certain essential practices of a funeral and yet it's visible how that religious belief has faded through the generations. This isn't my religion -- not that I had any to start with -- but I still feel strange witnessing the tradition die out. We don't mind helping out with certain things, but the family doesn't wish to do it and so we step back and let them do it the way they prefer. Somehow that makes me feel guilty; why.<br />
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What's going to happen when our time comes? I call myself a "free-thinker" but that's a rose-tinted label for someone who simply has no faith. I wonder what faith my children, if I do end up having any, will believe in? For someone with no religion, how would they send me off? Perhaps it'll just mean that they can skip ahead to a quick trip to the crematorium. Such depressing thoughts. Then again, why should I mind? I don't actually believe in anything after all. But yet, I don't disbelieve. So where does that leave me?duhmynameiskailinhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08030343452209175085noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30681750.post-28015642911000125102013-01-21T00:48:00.002+08:002013-01-21T00:48:19.623+08:00EchoesWow it's been so long since my last post :O Anyway, lots of stuff have happened since the start of the year. Basically I... Spent more time at the shelter, read more books (I'm on the 'Song of Ice and Fire' series now! It's awesome!), tried to catch up on sleep, played a little more Ultimate, did more work for Open House, moved back into Angsana, started school, started lagging behind in schoolwork (how does time pass so fast!), ate a lot of junk food and started driving lessons! I'd like to post more but I just spent my whole weekend reading Book 2 in the series so time to get started on my readings for my lesson tomorrow! Ta ta~duhmynameiskailinhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08030343452209175085noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30681750.post-6525167220873881222013-01-01T17:44:00.003+08:002013-01-01T17:44:48.648+08:00twenty thirteenPlease be kind to me.duhmynameiskailinhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08030343452209175085noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30681750.post-27077993283774482862012-12-25T01:15:00.001+08:002012-12-25T01:23:27.408+08:00trying so hardMerry Christmas everyone, I hope your's is turning out better than mine. A new year is coming soon but I'm not ready for it. It's so hard to let go and move on from all that happened this year. 2012 held some of the happiest times of my life and some of the worst. It hurts so much; if I didn't have so much to do and so many books to read I'd just lie in bed all day and disappear piece by piece.<br />
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"Belief isn't simply a thing for fair times and bright days, I think. What is belief - what is faith - if you don't continue in it after failure?"<br />
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Stories are an amazing thing. Fantasy stories, especially. I've been reading every chance I got this past week ever since I went to the library on last Sunday (finally!). Quick recap before I end up in one of those pointless moods!<br />
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17 dec: Went for a HC training but mostly stood around collecting mud. It's embarrasing how I've forgotten how to play zone offence hahas. Open House meeting at Angsana in the evening, slept over. KFC dinner, yumz.<br />
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18 dec: Dragged myself up really really early in the morning to go to ACRES, was so envious of Sh and CC who were happily snoozing away hahas. Helped out for a full day shift although I had intended to leave after the morning shift, I guess it's not like I had anything else to do :/ Went back to Angsana to pick up my stuff before going home, sis bought Macs dinner for us (I see a really bad trend starting)<br />
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19 dec: Hardcore reading day hahas<br />
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20 dec: Volunteered for NUS CSC's christmas event at a hospice, it was eye-opening and fun. The horse betting game brought back memories :/ Went to town, had Carl's Junior for dinner (and the trend continues!), watched Life of Pi. Conquered... something that day. Let's just say I made myself do something I've always wanted to be capable of doing but was too afraid to; I hope that mean's I'm moving forward.<br />
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21 dec: Watched Rise of the Guardians with J at Tampines, we were both late and missed the first 30 minutes of the movie hahaha. It was a nice heart-warming movie, and Jack Frost made excellent eye candy hahas. Such big eyes and those shaggy bangs of his... *fangirls* hahaha. Went back home and Jo tried to take photos of the dogs; there's this really cute one of Amber, will upload my favourites after I've sorted through them. Oh and sis got a bunny! It's so cute *aww*<br />
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22 dec: Indoor Christmas Hat at HC, woke up with a terrible headache (perhaps I shouldn't have read so much the day before, oops) and almost didn't go for Hat. Going back to HC was harder than I'd thought it would be but Hat was still awesome fun; had Macs lunch with the rest of the 4th batch who went. Wanted to crash when I got home but I started reading and just couldn't stop.<br />
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23 dec: Mum literally had to drag me out of bed this morning. Visited grandma, haven't been going much since I spent quite a number of weekends at Angsana or just staying at home. Spent even more time reading hahas, I'm on the 3rd book in the Mistborn trilogy and it's amazing. I'm probably going to stay up late reading it again even though I have to be up early to go to Angsana.<br />
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About reading... it's good. It's a really effective distraction that occupies any spare time I have. It stops my mind from wandering into places better left forgotten and gives me something to do instead of lying in bed at night trying to fall asleep.<br />
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As a side thought, I've recently changed in more ways that I initially realised and I can't say it's all for the better. Trust plays a big part in the story in the Mistborn trilogy. Coincidentally, it also happens to be something I've been thinking about. Life's full of lessons and I guess I've gotten mine on trust.<br />
duhmynameiskailinhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08030343452209175085noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30681750.post-80744029448646192782012-12-16T18:54:00.000+08:002012-12-16T18:54:47.677+08:00nocturnalJust realised my first post was when finals started hahas. I'm just glad they're over, not much to say about them. As for the holiday break... it's is turning out to be more packed than I expected; it's a pleasant surprise.<br />
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3 dec: Finished my last paper. Actually, "finished" is misleading, more like I flipped frantically between pages trying to find something I knew how to do but I ended up leaving lots and lots of blanks. Urgh, bad memory. I was just relieved finals were over. Played my first game of Citadels that night, pretty cool and I kinda like it.<br />
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4 dec: Spent most of the day packing up my room and parents came over at night to have dinner with me. We then moved most of my junk in my Angsana room home. I'm not sure how I managed to fit so much into that small room, but next sem I'm definitely going to bring less over.<br />
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5 dec: Went back to Angsana in the afternoon for my room inspection and Welogs meeting in the evening. Can't remember what we did at night but we were up late... doing something.<br />
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6 dec: Went swimming at QW's place with her and dawn! Super duper fun, especially since we did more chatting than swimming hahas. We went to town after that and wandered around; ate ice cream and bought new books to read hahas! Bought a large packet of Garretts too for our movie night; we watched "Three Idiots" hahahaha. Such a good movie ^^<br />
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7 dec: Catch up on sleep day? I can't remember what happened again :/ (OH I REMEMBER NOW! It was Black neighbourhood's BBQ dinner day. We surprised J, JY and CC for their birthday too, gave them their birthday wishes in a jar each with folded stars and Hersheys kisses inside. Got them a piñata too to destroy, JY's turn was epic. He broke the stick we used to hold the piñata hahaha. After that he used said broken stick to maim the poor gingerbread man piñata hahas)<br />
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8 dec: Angsana's Inter-neighbourhood games! Played Ultimate (we got 2nd, may have been a little too relaxed playing it hahas) and Captain's Ball (got 3rd I think), had lots of fun and got to watch other people play their sports too. Floorball was really scary and intense! Went to Clementi to have a Black neighbourhood dinner then a bunch of us went to the arcade (Super fun!). Had a semi-HTHT when we got back to Angsana.<br />
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9 dec: Packed up the rest of my stuff and checked out of Angsana! Parents came over to have dinner again to help me clear my dinner credits and move stuff home.<br />
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10 dec: Ran errands, went to get new spectacles made... sounds about it hahas<br />
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11 dec: ... can't recall anything at all hahas<br />
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12 dec: Carried the huge box of jo's and her friends' threadless stuff + elsa's stuff to Angsana, my arms were burning T^T Did some sourcing for Open House and then went off to NUS Law campus for a night scrim! I was kinda bummed about missing the OG outing but oh wells, playing ultimate is always fun. It was raining and the fields were super muddy, raced back to Angsana after the scrim for an online meeting at 11.30pm. Was a little late and google hangout was being weird; had BestFriesForever for a late dinner (yumz!) during the meeting hahas. Washing up my muddy jersey and cleats was a pain, ended up crawling into a cradle (two long sofas pushed together to form a little bed-like thing hahas) in the lounge around 3am. Slept at maybe 6am? Too occupied with thoughts and random talking :/<br />
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13 dec: Overslepttttt (sorry Jo ><) and woke up around 1pm, passed Joey her stuff. Collapsed back into cradle in the lounge and bummed about. It was a lazy day (i.e. rainy), just didn't feel like getting up at all hahas. Eventually dragged myself out to have lunch and head down to the Angsana management office to find out some stuff for Open House, got the floor plan for the hall and flying seed and realised I don't quite know how to read it hahaha. Went home for dinner and finished rereading Wise Man's Fear after 5 days of obsessing with it hahas. Needless to say, it was awesome. Can't wait for the next book to come out :]<br />
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14 + 15 dec: Woke up sometime in the afternoon, did more sourcing for Open House before heading off to NUS for Disc to Dawn. Started first game around 8+ / 9pm, played all the way till the finals at 5am. It's not quite possible to explain how I managed to stay awake all the way but it was awesome. Played handler for all the games; I think I'm no longer nervous about it (either that or I was just too sleepy and tired hahas). Dex, CK and Sam made some freaking amazing catches, Siu did a crazy layout and got a full applause from everyone hahaha. Finished 2nd and it stings a little to have lost on the universal but oh wells, I think I learnt a lot that day strangely. Siu and I trudged back to Angsana to shower and clean up; we spent more than an hour just scrubbing mud off ourselves hahas. Took a long bus ride home and slept through most of it, when I got home at 10+am my auntie freaked out at the amount of mud on my jersey and shorts hahahaha. Sleptttttt.<br />
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15 dec continued: Woke up around 2+pm and realised I was going to be late. Rushed to town, WY found out Rise of the Guardians was sold out (we both missed the OG outing when they watched it) so we watched Hotel Transylvania instead. It was quite a hilarious movie, the kind you watch to brighten up your day or wake yourself up when you've only had 3 hours of sleep in the past 24 hours hahas. We met B at dhoby where we wandered around Cathay, wrote on one of those white floating balls for New Year's Eve Countdown. That was a funny moment hahaha, someone had written "get over the b..." and I added "me too" and B added "all the best" hahahaha. Went over to Timbre Substation to find out they had an event going on so rerouted to Switch instead. Ordered the usual duck pizza and the salmon pizza too hahas, yumz good food. WY and B got their drinks and after my tummy was nicely full after I let them order one for me since Timbre's rule was everyone has to order at least one drink and I don't drink enough to have a preference. CC came along soon enough and S arrived later on. Got more food food, (fries, buffalo wings and a duck and green curry halfandhalf pizza. Talked for really long before the live band started and all the Chinese songs came out. B and I were a little lost while the other 3 happily sang along. Eventually left and ended up walking to the helix bridge, didn't cross it but went back to City Hall via marina square when we realised how late it was. Caught a pretty late train and got back just before midnight. Mum thankfully forgot to chase me home earlier hahahaha. Slept.<br />
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16 dec / today: More sleeping hahahas. Woke up around 4pm and had lunch. Gonna head over to bedok later to collect my specs and borrow some books from the library. Busy week ahead!<br />
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<br />duhmynameiskailinhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08030343452209175085noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30681750.post-28804903717907068212012-11-28T02:07:00.000+08:002012-11-28T02:07:13.574+08:00EntropyThis is so fucked up.duhmynameiskailinhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08030343452209175085noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30681750.post-36419611455042095502012-11-27T01:59:00.001+08:002012-11-27T01:59:54.832+08:00hunting for rainbowsSo... My first final exam is in 7 hours time and here I am un-asleep and unprepared. This is what happens when shit happens and you can't dig yourself out of that pit of vipers. I just want to curl up in bed and read lots of books with a fat cat on my lap.<br />
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Today was supposed to be a cramming day, but it ended up being one of waddling around like a giant Pao with legs followed by a pretty satisfying frisbee pickup. And not to forget a 21st's birthday celebration for my OG mate and just lots of pure random-ness coming out of a future-teacher-to-be (the things she'll do to her students... I pity them hahahas). Somewhere in all that, I've acquired a bruise on my calf and half a dozen cupcakes. Yum.<br />
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Time to skim some lecture slides; the least I could do is find out what's in my syllabus that's going to be tested tomorrow.duhmynameiskailinhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08030343452209175085noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30681750.post-37388891789446302262012-11-23T11:36:00.001+08:002012-11-23T11:36:14.866+08:00AshesThat's it. No more.duhmynameiskailinhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08030343452209175085noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30681750.post-11494061894051788432012-11-11T01:47:00.000+08:002012-11-11T01:47:18.227+08:00the sunshine in your hairI think one of the best things about being home are the showers. It's amazing how therapeutic simple streams of hot water can feel after a long day. That feeling of your whole body thawing from outside in as the warmth soaks in and the shower stall steams up... And the strong jets of water, so much better than the half-hearted drizzle at Angsana's showers. And when you finally step out of the shower with great reluctance, there's that perfect after-shower glow where you feel like your skin is still gently giving off phantom heat. Throw on a fluffy towel and you've locked that wonderful fuzzy glow in. Step straight into an airconditioned room, wiggle under a soft blanket and you're ready for bed. The simple pleasure I'll take for granted no more.<br />
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Goodnight guys :)duhmynameiskailinhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08030343452209175085noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30681750.post-38970892472245299972012-10-28T00:10:00.000+08:002012-10-28T00:23:24.600+08:00petrichor; breatheThe power of words; doubt; priorities; longing; thick hoodies; movies in bed; pancakes; cold toes and fingertips; guilt; resentment; stories; transformation; warm blankets; morning calls; cupcakes; lost courage; photographs; bad choices; empty promises; discipline; yearning; surprises; time; froyo; post its; escalators; daydreams; imaginary friends; pretence; expectations; making changes; hope; late night walks; holding on; control; plans; fear; realisation; triggers; a bunch of scattered thoughts<br />
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We've only got a hundred years to live.duhmynameiskailinhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08030343452209175085noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30681750.post-47014445128911728172012-10-20T12:37:00.000+08:002012-10-20T12:37:14.184+08:00Surprise surpriseI'm here! Hahas it's been so long, I can't believe it's mid October already. 233 days till he comes back! Biz school has been keeping me really busy. The bell curve proves to be as scary as I'd excepted it to be.<br />
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That's the distribution for my DSC ops management test. My gut tells me 80% is alright but... I need that 4.5 for SEP D: I'm quite sure if I try for Ireland my parents will totally think it's for LC, which is true, so they might not let me go in the end :/ But places in London schools are too competitive :(</div>
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Last Saturday was Grab Huck Score which was really fun! We didn't do too well but it was kinda exciting. I didn't know half my teammates at all till the day of the tournament. I just turned up and learnt their names and played hahaha. It was awesome, I'm probably going for training this coming Tuesday if nothing crops up. I seem to have collected an excessive amount of school tees and jerseys too, the pile in my cupboard is frightening. I can probably not wash my clothes for a month and not run out of tees @@</div>
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School-wise, Thursday I had my MNO presentation which really took a great weight of my chest. I forgot my lines quite a bit and said some rubbish but oh wells :S We'll get the feedback from my tutor this coming Thursday, hopefully it's not too bad. She seemed pretty excited about the topic we were presenting hahas, I think it's cause it's a company she can relate to :D Now to move on to the next presentation, argh. So far in this semester, I've completed 1 video project and 1 presentation for MNO, 1 micro project for econs and 1 other project for business law. That's so many projects! :O Biz law was for that crazy day I stayed up till 6am to read through 67 pages of the case and then do up our discussion. I then woke up at 9am to have really awesome hash brown from the dining hall before going for a super dry accounting lecture (and I didn't fall asleep!) I'm just glad I'm not studying law *phew*</div>
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Friday I crashed Qian Wen's Singapore Society lecture, it was pretty interesting hahas. Much more interesting than my biz lectures for sure. We got to watch a clip out of this theatre production called "charged". It's set in a NS context and was really interesting. The acting was rather decent too, I would have gone to watch such a production. After that was just a meeting for my accounting project (noooo not another project T^T) and back to Angsana for dinner. I think I'm really bored of their food already and during dinner I was thinking about what to order for supper hahaha. We ordered KFC in the end, it was so good ^^</div>
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We watched parts of Mulan while eating and later at night we watched V for Vendetta. The movie was... wow. V reminds me of Snape hahaha! After the movie I went on a whole fangirly tirade about how sexy Snape is and now my OG mates all know my strange fetish for snape-ish characters D: And yes, awesome movie. The story played out really well and V was just amazing. He's like a madman but so human in other aspects; he's so strong and intelligent yet vulnerable too. I'm in total fangirl mode heehee ^^ Oh and some people in my Angsana house are potter fans too! It's so awesome, I think we can try having movie nights to watch the whole series soon :D</div>
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And I think I'll have to end here, I was supposed to start on work a longgggg time ago. Argh, this weekend I need to work on my MNO and ACC projects. Halloween's coming, prepare to be visited by the living dead ;D (and I don't mean sleep deprived students hahaha)</div>
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Oh and have I mentioned how fun it is talking to Siri? I love my new phone, the battery lasts infinitely longer than my old one! So happy, I named it Hans after a character from Book Thief that I really liked. Oh and even though this has been a super busy week, reading has been keeping me sane. Book Thief was really good, I'm rereading bits of the Alchemist but I think I'll start on Invisible Monsters once I go home and fetch it today :)</div>
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<i>Boy: Because I like to travel.</i></div>
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<i>Old man: (points at a baker) When he was a child, that man wanted to travel, too. But he decided first to buy his bakery and put some money aside. When he's an old man, he's going to spend a month in Africa. He never realised that people are capable, at any time in their lives, of doing what they dream of.</i></div>
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<i>Boy: He should have decided to become a shepherd.</i></div>
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<i>Old man: Well, he thought of that. But bakers are more important people than shepherds. Bakers have homes, while shepherds sleep out in the open. Parents would rather see their children marry bakers than shepherds. In the long run, what people think about shepherds and bakers becomes more important for them than their own destinies.</i></div>
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